Honorable MP, Dorji Wangdi in Zhemgang.

Honorable, MP DOrji Wangdi in Zhemgang CS, MPH. 

It was usual Friday Morning. MP’s arrival time came as a good news. Probably, 9AM was what I heard from V.P sir and we all expect him to come like any other guest, unpunctual! But, shockingly MP was already in front of us and that makes a Breaking News. Because in the past we have lots of bitter experiences of waiting officials for hours.

Unlike other people, we are culturally fit to wait any kinds of guest anywhere –at home or in office. We say proudly waiting and being unpunctual is our culture but –it’s beyond our education. Our education never taught us to be unpunctual. We say, it’s ok! No problem! It means we don’t care about time and being punctual is always a challenge and priority for many of us. Time management is always an unwholesome task. But, to honorable MP is a cup of tea. 

He is an outstanding human being and a fine parliamentarian. We see him working so hard for the wellbeing of the country and the people with all his dedication.  

Honorable MP, Dorji Wangdi is one of the frequent member in the parliament house to debate with the government and one permanent member in BBS panel. He always brings in genuine, legal and researched point to support his stand. He always talk what is good for the country and the people. Nonetheless, he is one of the few individual that Zhemgang has ever produced.

The last time I have seen him was on bbs television on the controversy to corporatization of JDWNRH. While in his full length of discussion, he said government has breach the constitution of Bhutan.

As usual, MP started his talk by asking students about their wellbeing. He also acknowledged school management for giving him the opportunity.

He paused for a second and told us he would talk on four main topics – democracy, the roles and responsibilities of government and opposition party, the country’s current situations, the purpose of education and finally his life experience.

Without any hesitation, he told many things about democracy, its main purpose, challenges and priorities. One important crux was the role of an opposition party is not only to oppose the ruling government rather opposition is party in waiting. He also briefly told us about the roles and responsibility of three types of government – legislative body, judicial body and executive body in making a stronger government. Looking at his clarity and the flow of ideas on the topic, I wish him to be a History Teacher. Honestly, he had substituted our history teacher on the talk and its worth spending our time together.

Along with democracy talk, he also have connected the roles and responsibility of government and the opposition party with some examples. He briefly said the present scenario of the country is not so sound, development are in progress and some future scope of the country. He said if democracy in Bhutan has to sustain well, it is our individual and collective responsibility that can make a huge difference and that only can make a dream and aspiration of His Majesty come true. Thus, in perusing life –beyond democracy, quality education and being good human being is what matters more than a university degree qualification.

Unlike in the past, the way we live a life has changed dramatically. Therefore, it is very important for all of us to adjust with such changing times for a successful survival. He also shared the vision of His Majesty on the type of individual country wants for a job market today –‘innovative and tech-smart or Geek’.

He said, what we must do as an individual to create lasting and reliable future. He took us to the world on how to be genuine, kind, nice and gentle human being. According to him, moral responsibility and commitment are the two things that keeps country moving forward and successful.

What is it that makes a successful person? His answer is –being positive, focus and being consistent in work.

He informed us about our idealized past and utopian future that is too unstable.

The most appealing element of his talk was on our pursuit of democracy. The objectives of democracy are actually very clear and fine, it is the elected member who makes it dirty. He passed the messages of His Majesty, the introduction of democracy is to secure country’s stability and sustainability and not to mislead people on their right.  

Moving deeper into his talk, he said the power of one single person taking an example of Emperor Meiji of Japan. Meiji was a lone man who raised japan back to one of the most powerful nation economically and politically after the massive destruction during World War II.

In the golden age of technology, digital economy is now dominating the world into craziness. Thus, to be at par he informed us that our education system should produce Youth who is work ready, world ready and future ready technologically. To get into job market anywhere in the world, abilities like hard skills and soft skills has become very important and necessary. However, communication skill is a heart throb.

He finally released the secret behind him becoming youngest cabinet minister –is all due to support of his people, his parents for admitting him in school, teachers for his education and finally it’s his continuous hard work and positiveness are the only top-secret.

He used Archimedes quote, ‘give me a place to stand and a lever long enough and I will move the world,’ to supplement on collective success.

Importance of having ambition and dream is what keeps us focus, keep us working and good attitude is what keep us becoming good human being.

As a student, Honorable MP has a dream to become a simple school teacher. But, he has different fate in store and that is what he is today.

Honorable MP, as we see in the debate is so staid but it is not. He is equally humorous and a jolly person but that came only to the end was a big surprise.

He informed us the news of BBIN motor vehicle agreement for now is kept on hold for country’s security and for environmental concern. The other good news was, Zhemgang CS is likely to turn into college in 12^th five year plan.

I wish him Good Luck in rest of his career!

RIP, My Old Boxer!

Recently Zhemgang Dzongkhag Tshogdue (DT) have decided an unkind resolution making it compulsory for both town and village people to wear Gho and Kira from 9AM to 5PM. I have really like their antique ideas for a good cause so that our age old tradition and custom is preserved well. As a Bhutanese I am a responsible citizen to uphold my country's law and identity. For me wearing national gears is not so difficult and a big deal. I feel so comfortable and proud to be in my colorful gho. I often prefer wearing of Tshechu color Gho over my Pangtsi Dhorma (Boxer)! But, I have seen people of all works of life pouring out their grievances openly and savagely in some social media.  

According to DT chairman, the decision was taken according to Local Government Act and the book on etiquette's to protect and preserve national identity, culture and tradition. I feel all these are the old thoughts. But, I don’t mean to be unfaithful and doom my country along with few unpatriotic people.

As of now the proposed penalty to those who fail to comply with DT’s decision was quite handsome but unkind. Who told that wearing of National Dress alone can preserve the National Sovereignty?

Although, it is important to preserve and promote culture and tradition and to protect country’s independence and security in the face of changing world. But, not this way. I feel this is too harsh for the people. Let them decide what to wear and when to wear what. If wearing national dress alone can stand to protect us from foreign invasion and danger. I submit myself to be wearing my national dress even while sleeping and to my deathbed.   

I suppose culture shouldn’t be stagnant. It must go on with the change of time. At any time, nobody want to hang in their birthday suit. Our concern authority should have the knowledge that the country’s sovereignty can’t hold by simply wearing Gho and Kira, speaking national language, playing archery (bamboo bow) and eating Emadatshi. There are times and places where individual citizen should be oblique and obedient to law of kingdom.

We live in 21^st century and the world is so open now. The air of change is already overflowing even in our locality and country is experiencing the most dramatic change in culture and the other system that are actually brought by our own people living abroad and some foreigners who visit to see Bhutan’s unique culture. We can’t stop such habit and interdependence to eachother!

I feel completely depending on cultural won't uphold the nation's independency. The time to display of our museum pieces has gone far now and it holds no good meanings either. In present times, the political and economic powers are the two main things that keeps us strong and alive.

Therefore, wearing of Gho and Kira should be made lovable and comfortable and should not be imposed as a law. Anything that comes as an order can never sustain and it won't be durable either. So, far I didn't see any Bhutanese who have said he/she do not love Bhutan. When we love our country so much, it means we love wearing our national dress but appropriately in right place and time.

The policy makers actually have a bigger role to play when such discussion happens. They should be always mindful of the past experiences and the facts. I vividly remember the controversy of half-kira, compelling speaking of Dzongkha as the medium of communication in all the offices and public and the Tracksuits in schools had to overturn because of public infuriation and citizens right.

However, besides everything we must stand to give higher priorities on, how to solve the issue of trash, rural-urban migration, youth unemployment rate and increasing numbers of students involved in alcohol and drugs related crime at the earliest. Likewise, we also have some more urgent needs to reach out at the earliest like modern development –boosting of rural-economic opportunities, supporting more efficient trade and market deal, quality education and reaching out for drinkable water has to be the top agendas for our DT to discuss and not such catastrophic discussion. 

I love my National Dress, DO YOU? 

Here are some comments and feedback on the social media that I captured reacting to the resolution:

Rinchen (Farmer from Gongphu, Zhemgang)

It would be difficult for farmers to work in the farms in gho and kira. “I have not heard of the new rule but I will raise the issue when local leaders come with the news.”

Ngawang Choden (Mother of three, zhemgang)

It would be uncomfortable to work in kira in hot weather. She said that local leaders should have discussed the matter with the people before deciding. “Imposing fine would be a harsh punishment for farmers.”

Norbu Toiisang Lama

He said, national dress is to be worn with pride, not with fear to be penalized. I don’t support the resolution.

Tshering JK Jurmey

I am not sure about the abrupt decision, how people at village will bear the cost of demeanor because of dress code? We know everything about village as most of are the son and daughter of farmer. The decision should should not be made base on our present comfort chair, it’s just my perception…

Alcohol Free Birthday Party -- part II

Although, one's essential needs of food, clothing and shelter is something measurable. However, for kids the more important is the social environment in which they live in. For every kids their parents, relatives, friends, uncle and aunt usually plays a very significant role in making the kind of person we want them to be in future. 

Of course, their parents having a brand new car and a smart phone can give them a temporary feeling of satisfaction and enjoyment. But, in reality it will never give them the peace of mind and justice they want as a child.

We have been hearing and becoming a constant victim of so many alcohol related misconducts –lying, stealing, cheap sexual behavior, fighting and murdering are the most common happenings.  

The study conducted by RENEW and other relevant agency have also found out that about 96.7% of the crime and unwholesome domestic violence are reported to happen due to alcohol. Therefore, I personally feel banning the sale of the alcohol products legally is the only way forward to put end to all forms of violence. 

To better seal my opinion on the new idea of alcohol ban birthday party. I have recently met a group of unschooled women in the market with baby at their back. They seemed so traditional in their attire but not so much in their conversation. Their language were –beyond my education to understand. Yet, I made some rough conclusion. As I stand near to them, I had sensed some of them are desperately hunting to quench their thirst with popular Druk 11,000 brand. I knew their favorite brand wasn't in the market for some reasons. So, I waited patiently to hear their response. 

However, after sometime one of the woman seemed to be more desperate was leading a group had willfully accused the shopkeeper for not keeping the brand with so and so. 

I see 99.9% of our people are crazy in drinking. Since, they are made socially fit to drink right from their birth or many even before that. So, we share equal blame for this. 

The program's main motive is to educate people on drinking habits in front of their kids. The other is to give more and quality time at least during their birthday party. Conversely, what usually happen with us is, all the parents sulk in one corner with their brands and the child are left freely to the other end. Often, times before the birthday party ends, many parents would be intoxicated. They won't be in a good position to reach home. The safety of the kids is always forgotten.  

Therefore, as a responsible parent, I feel what other parent feel for their kids. In this modern world, I could see unfathomable challenges and responsibilities ahead of us to nurture our juniors; to an alcoholic or an addict is right in our hand!

Perhaps, I feel rather doubtful on how other parents would like this idea. I know it will take us long and needs all our dedication to understand on the cause and the effect of alcohol. However, this program can only be successful if all of us join hand sincerely and wholeheartedly. The concern agency have a similar plan to sincerely educate on free alcohol birthday party celebration to a wider audience have given me some hope. I wish them good luck!

Nonetheless, I have some reservation on how this customary offerings would end. I know Coca-Cola drinks also serves the same purpose. But, to what form? I also know many invited guest and relatives would surely miss distant uncle's birthday party.

Alcohol Free Birthday Party

Yesterday, I was reminded by bbs television on 'Alcohol Free Birthday Party. They have hijacked my emotion and took away my happiness. And to many it may have seemed like a Hiroshima bombing. The program aired was so ambitious. However, I have some personal reservation and a doubt on how this can work. I could see some painstaking challenges ahead of us. If everyone like this new idea of birthday celebration, it would definitely benefit us. But, it would be difficult for those friends and families who can't live without it. I am not saying for my sake. I am honestly a sober guy. 

The one who came with the idea deserves my hands down salute for making such a catastrophic program. I am thoroughly confused how this age old customary tradition will end without the offering of alcohol for the guest. 

Drinking and offerings of alcohol in our culture deeply rooted in our age old tradition. We have a society that is best known by the offerings of alcohol in a most traditional ways. In fact, offerings of alcohol to any level of guest shows, how kind and generous are the host. In many celebration, alcohol offerings is necessary because our culture and tradition demands for it. Perhaps, actually such belief hooked us more deep into alcohol accessible society. 

According to World Health Organization report, Bhutan has the highest per-capita adult consumption of pure alcohol, 8.47 litres which is even higher than the average global consumption of 6.2 litres.  There are around 5,400 bars and about 700 of them are in the capital alone. Some study have revealed that one outlet per 98 Bhutanese aged 15 and above is easily available. For a small society the number is amazingly so high. 

                                                                  Alcohol Free Birthday Party -- part II

Lyonpo Norbu Wangchuk Factor in Zhemgang.

Lyonpo Norbu Wangchuk, Education Minister

"Kuzozooo…zangpooooo…La…zhemgang", began Lyonpo Norbu Wangchuk in his deep shimmering voice like he used to do in the parliament house. My students were surprised, they have never faced him in person like this before. I am sure many of my students would have seen him for the first time as an Education Minister. As he begin, the hall went mad silent which was –beyond my expectation and even to those students who have been the most boring and sluggish have their head high up in the air trying to make some sense through Lyonpo's thrilling and hilarious talks.   

Honestly, this talk has been the best so far in my school hall. I feel very sorry for some Class VIII students who couldn't have made due to limited space. And to those who have been purposefully absented from the day's program are the most ill-fated and unlucky one in their entire life. Perhaps, they have missed Lyonpo's talk forever like a flowing river. The lucky half who have attended the talk have graciously snooped Lyonpo's talk with all their energy and interest they have in their fate.

Lyonpo busy in his talk with students and staff of ZhemgangCS

Lyonpo's talk basically was about the youth, their poor mentality and attitude towards tradition and culture, the way they perceive their lifestyle and the balance for quality of education. 

Of all, I liked Lyonpo's classical example of a gallant and a cool guy is what I too have during my school days. The concept of a cool guy is all to ambush the girl you are in love with a piece of cigarette in one hand and gogs on his forehead. I could feel the same psychological break-down of behavior and mentality  of cool is still hanging around with our youth today.

Lyonpo trying hard to control three balls

To further exhibit what actually is trying hard, he took out three different colored balls and immediately started to juggle with his two hands so merrily and mercilessly. The hall filled with surprise that turned into a huge round of applause for his talent and ability to play the ball in the air. However, his recent example of how he have won the Open Men's Double National Level Badminton Championship is all due to his co-partner and his positiveness. So, the lesson is that sometime being positive alone is more important than talent, is what I called as Lyonpo Norbu Wangchuk's Factor!

Lyonpo giving a real trying juggling shot in front of students
and staff

Lyonpo in action

However, His Excellency's example of beautiful volcano eruption on plasma TV screen have captured my attention the most. But, I worry how it could be possible in Bhutanese Classroom setting, when the classroom wall is still poor.

Honestly, I have never seen my students responding to any speakers so impatiently like this before. I must say, it is not that he is a Minister but his talk has all the substance that have captured the audience mood the most as a parent, educator and a politician. His real life experiences have added all the charm in his talk show. The big laughter came when he cited an example of his most ugly friend and his 10 pages love letter. However, the hall went pin drop silent when he finally said that his ugly friend have left the school when the girl he loved the most have terribly failed to accept his proposal. It is lucky that he is still alive with different life partner.  

There are many things to learn from Lyonpo's talk and I am sure everyone present in the hall would have deeply committed within themselves of the strong take home message. He also have shared that his two kids are far too superior to him in fiddling smart phones and other items is what amaze him the most.  

To further authenticate the reward of hardship, he narrated and took us to the world of movie. He shared how he took the challenges to become a successful movie script writer? He also said that it took him sleepless night to become a successful writer. Now, given a challenge he can write any good movie script within a week time. He was proud to say that, some of his movie was very successful and even earn the title of blockbuster film. Some of his movie script includes, 'Senglem, Sleeping Beauty', etc…

His Excellency then talked so proudly about the magic of hard work and positive mindset. Within very short span of time as an education minister, he was deeply fascinated by the fact that change in curriculum was successful. He is also happy to see the talented and skillful youth all across the country. The way they play with all kinds of gadgets is incredible and awesome. However, at the same time, it is little disheartening to see many of the youth are ruining their life into drugs and some even to unlawful activities. As an education minster, he worries about the quality education, the declining values and culture over time with the introduction of western cultures that are slipping in through different forms. 

He also have noticed that the most vulnerable stage is when our students reach to class nine until they finish class twelve, he reminded to all of us that, this four years of schooling is very important and crucial. What he have noticed was, most of the drop out and criminals are made in this segment of schooling. He have shared his concern over our young, talented and beautiful youth start to mess up their life into drugs and alcohol. 

And particularly, to me I have been longing to see and hear from him in person for a long time. Because I have heard few hundreds of his ability to talk to any kinds of audience. His talk would especially benefit young school going children and some cynical heroes. I am quite sure there won't be another set of such talk in future from him. But, let us make a point to hold whatever he have said for long one-and-half-hour talk till the very end would do a magic in our life for all times.

His message was strong to those who think education is the vehicle and game changer for whatever maybe the reasons; religion, blood and the color won't matter in education. He requested all the teachers to be a role model and continue to educate -beyond textbook. He also have deeply reminded to us that no matter what ever maybe the curriculum and how high end technology that may slips in, we must not forget to prepare our child for 21^st century. Lyonpo said that, although we are seven ocean apart from United States of America, yet we are politically and economically connected. Which means we share many common aspects of life, and education is a game changer for all of us. 

We must remember that education is a big vehicle and we must start to build this vehicle a responsible vehicle for all times to come.