Finally the Wait is Over

Today, we share double happiness. First, Bhutan is celebrating its 118th National Day in the sacred Bumthang Valley - a day that marks the unification of Bhutan under our great leader, Gongsar Ugyen Wangchuck. Second, after a long wait, we are finally reunited with our beloved children after 972 days (2 years, 7 months, 29 days).

Our foreign dreams came with a heavy sacrifice. It was nothing like the pain of leaving behind our two beloved kids and family. Though they were well-taken care of by my brother, sister-in-law, and our mother, nothing eases the ache of being away from them. The early months were especially hard, filled with guilt, longing, and constant thoughts of their well-being.

Life did not offer us many choices while I pursued my studies. Bringing them with us then would have been so hard for all of us. We waited, endured, and grew stronger. Today, though I am still a university student pursuing a research degree, we are a little more secure.

As our children join us, we hope this new chapter fills them with humility, learning, life skills, and values to serve our king, country, and people.

Welcome to our rented home

17 December 2026 | Arrival: 6:15 p.m (Canberra airport).

The Classic Two

 

Pic: Reden (Left), Yesha (Right)

It feels unfair not to mention anything about this photograph sent to us. It takes us back, as if we'd only just left them yesterday. Yet, time has moved so fast, both have grown into entirely different from the ones we left behind.

When we left, our boy had just begun to speak words like "papa, mummy, mammum" and our Yesha was still too young to be apart from us.

Perhaps it was not fair on our part as parents. However, different circumstances pushed us to this far away place, separated by mountains, valleys and oceans.

Honestly, when I think about the missed milestones of our children, my higher degree and the foreign experiences are nothing.

We console ourselves in far away places, deep inside our heart, that even though there's a quiet regret that lingers, yet life must go on, no matter what. And we're not just the parents who're far away chasing some wild dreams. 

When I first saw this photo, I just couldn't scroll to the next. I was profoundly lost in this photo. It gave me some mixed feelings, one proud that they're in safe hands and the other, it pained my heart that we missed every moment of their milestones, which money and our experiences can't buy. 

"Missing their innocence, baby smell, nagging, laughter, and funny moments will never return".

Reden's mature pose and Yesha dressing full in sublime purple and mixed, girlish tone remind us of the years we'd just missed. Indeed, those missed precious moments of our kids will remain forever etched in our hearts. 

We may have been away, but our love has never left them and never will.

  

Our Three Humble Offerings

Reden's 6th Birthday Offering

It has been exactly 841 days, or 2 years, 3 months and 19 days, since we have been away from our two beloved children.

Perhaps I don't want to recall that Thursday morning of 20 April 2023, when we had to leave them still sleeping in their beds. Since then, we have been living in two different worlds, counting each day, hoping time passes quickly and our reunion happens like a magical moment.

Today, we celebrate our son’s 5th birthday — from afar, through video calls and virtual hugs.

We send him our warmest wishes and endless prayers for his good health, his happiness and a life filled with love and meaning. May all his dreams come true, and may he always be guided by kindness and strength.

To honour his 5th birthday, we offer three simple, symbolic gifts;

 A "Butter Lamp" ( in the hope that he will one day shine light upon the world with his goodness, warmth and wisdom.  

A "Bhutanese Incense Stick" (wishing that he may carry the fragrance from the Himalayas within him, spreading love and calm wherever he goes). 

A "Red Daisy" (hoping he will be admired not only for his appearance but for his kind heart and that he may be loved by all for who he truly is)

With these humble offerings, we don't just wish him good health but also we wish him to grow into a compassionate, intelligent and humble human being, who will one day serve his country with highest integrity, pure passion and utmost loyalty.

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