Start With You: A Brief Review

Start with You: Lead from the Inside is a book by Belinda Brosnan, published by Baker Street Press in Melbourne, Australia, in 2018. The book has 132 pages, including the table of contents, and is divided into two main parts.

Part 1 consists of four main topics that focus on navigating personal leadership. It explores ideas such as personal leadership starting from within, the stages of personal leadership development, mindset, and unlocking possibilities. These topics are supported by relevant, practical examples and thought-provoking statements that encourage readers to reflect on their own leadership journey. Nonetheless, one point of time; everyone no matter what is a leader. 

Part 2 contains five main headings that focus on navigating one's way forward: Reveal, Resuscitate, Regulate, Recalibrate, and Radiate (5R's). Each of these ideas is explained through meaningful examples, relationships, and quotations. Together, the two parts provide a reflective journey from understanding oneself to becoming more intentional in the way one leads and influences others.

There are quite a few interesting lines in the book that resonate strongly with my beliefs about people, leadership, and, more importantly, the power that leaders hold, no matter how big or small the organisation is. A leader can influence an organisation or a community in endless ways, but the same influence, when exercised poorly, can also severely damage the people and community around them.

However, in my case, I'd like to take this idea from a little different angle. I believe that the power of an individual is significant not only within one's own home but also with community or organisation. Leadership does not necessarily begin with a title, position, or workplace. 

Children often look up to their parents as role models for different reasons. A father, for example, can be an important figure in a child's life, particularly through the sense of protection, guidance, and security he provides while the child is growing up. At the same time, a mother is equally influential, and, in many cases, her sacrifices leave a lasting impression on her children. The courage of a mother can be seen in the sacrifices she makes to raise her child. Whether facing heat, cold, hardship, or uncertainty, she continues to give her best so that another human being can grow, live, and become capable of surviving independently. This I believe is a true leader! because it involves difficult roles-no giving up mentality is the one I feel is so important. 

The child who grows up within such an environment eventually becomes part of society. That child may become a teacher, an engineer, a leader, or even a nation builder. In this sense, leadership at home can have consequences far beyond the boundaries of the family. The values, attitudes, work ethic, and integrity learned at home can eventually influence organisations, communities, and society they live in.

Likewise, becoming a successful leader is not easy, but it is certainly not impossible. There are many successful leaders across different organisations and institutions, and behind the success of many organisations is a good, visionary, and capable leader. For example, I see the Lt Prime Minister of Singapore Mr Lee Kuan Yew-popularly known as LKY was someone to look up to as a visionary leader. Someone who has turned a small Island into a global hub and many more that what we all know about Singapore today is the hard-earned sweat of Mr LKY. The same principle can be applied to a successful family, where strong and responsible parents provide guidance, stability, and direction.

Some leaders may appear to be naturally gifted, but many leaders are shaped through experience, learning, mentoring, and the influence of others. Throughout my own life, working under different leaders has played an important role in shaping the person I'm today. The influence of a single person in a leadership position can be remarkable. A good leader can inspire you, develop your confidence, and bring out the best in you. Conversely, a poor leader can undermine your confidence and leave an impact that may take years to build or in some cases, it will damage everything including one's very morals. This is why having good leadership in an office, organisation, company, or institution is important.

Ultimately, leadership begins with oneself. It begins with how we think, how we treat people, how we respond to challenges, and how we influence those around us.

As a father myself, I'd like to believe that this book will help me become not only a good father but also a better leader. One day, my children will enter workplaces and become part of organisations and communities, and the ability and mindset they carry becomes my ability to nurture them in the best possible ways-to let them see the unseen or invisible! Long before they reach that stage, however, the foundations of their mindset, work ethic, integrity, and attitude will already have been shaped by the people and environment around them.

Perhaps, therefore, one of the greatest leadership responsibilities I've is not simply to lead people at work, but to lead by example at home. Many would believe that “everything starts from home and so is the leader.” If I can help my children grow into responsible, compassionate, resilient, and capable individuals, then perhaps I'll have contributed, in my own small way, to shaping a happy family person who can possibly have influence in building the nation.

This book is for all of us.

Whether one wants to become a successful leader, parent, teacher, lawyer, businessman, it starts within. Simply, one positive attitude or mindset can change everything!

An Extraordinary Nurse

It is not about perfection. No one walks into a room or a service centre expecting someone to be perfect, nor seeking attention. It is about being mindful of what one is responsible for, understanding what one has been trained to do or paid to do. 

Perhaps, dedication and humility don't come with pay or someone's qualification especially in public service to be efficient or genuine, it comes with  great sense of workmanship or wanting to serve sincerely.

I've accessed different public services, but not quite like this one. The one that was so efficient and professional. Having spent a decade in public service myself, I've gained a considerable experience of working in the public domain but sadly, in many instances, those experiences have not been very impressive.

Of course, many would say that it starts with you, or that it depends on your attitude. I believe the same.

Recently, I happened to walk into a health centre for an emergency. "Hi, how can I help you?" was the greeting from the reception desk. As I entered, I noticed a curious receptionist's eyes following our footsteps. They seemed to sense that we're worried and perhaps understood that their words at that moment could either add to our stress or help calm the situation.

We must remember that someone walking into an emergency centre usually arrives with a purpose or a sense of urgency. What happens next can leave a lasting impression. In my case, it did.

Knowing that our situation was being treated fairly and equally, we were able to calmly explain why we needed to see the Nurse. We did not arrive with hope alone but with immense trust in their service.

Once everything was under control, we took a seat and eagerly waited for our turn. Our token number was 54. A moment later, token number 53 was called. I assumed they had arrived with a similar hope. When they left, I saw them with a huge smile and thanking the staff. That simple sight reassured me. That is the kind of service we look forward to receiving.

Soon, our turn came.

We were called into the nurse's room and after settling down, began having a simple but meaningful conversation. The Nurse on duty handled our situation with care that we did not feel panicked or even bored while waiting. Somehow, in that moment, everything began to feel better.

My daughter's fever and headache seemed to ease gradually. It was like a magic! Perhaps it was simply the psychology of being cared for by a professional or the reassurance itself helped, but everything gradually began to fall back to normal and seeing that smile on my daughter's face in fact brought a huge relief to me.

I was genuinely overwhelmed by the service provided in the centre. It could be the culture or simply the act of being professional, all that I can think of is the act of being kind and genuine.

I was not simply happy because I received the service I needed. I was grateful for how the situation was handled. We're treated not merely as another patient, but as human beings, another family looking for help during a difficult moment, hoping that someone would make the situation a little easier.

It was the humility, kindness, and genuineness of that interaction that made everything feel normal again. 

In a world driven by so many challenges and pressures, it is not always easy to give or receive; whether it is a service, material support, or simply a kind word. Sometimes, all it takes is a different approach, a different attitude, or a small gesture to make someone feel safe. 

When I think back my days in school as a teacher, I somehow feel good and satisfied that I always tried my best to be as professional as possible. There was no special treatment for someone I know or someone coming from well-to-do family or public servant or someone from farming background. All these did not matter to me so long they are my students, they are treated well and with equal respect they deserve. Simply, I treated them as another human being.

A kind gesture can make someone feel that they matter and that they too have a place in this world.

It was the genuine humility and kindness shown by one person that made such a difference to us. On the surface, it was simply a Nurse doing their job. But doing a job in a way that makes another person feel safe, respected and cared for is something much greater.

Providing a service at that level is not always easy. It takes a different mindset. It takes patience, awareness, culture and, above all, humanity.

Perhaps we do not always need extraordinary things from one another. Sometimes, all we look forward to is a small act of kindness, who can feel someone is drowning.

Whether in a hospital, a public office, a workplace, or even within our own homes, the way we treat people matters. And sometimes, an ordinary act of service, performed with extraordinary humility, can stay with someone for a lifetime. I probably would take the service as an example above ordinary of a Nurse doing their duty so well.

Thank you!

 

 

The Journey Ends

Among thousands, getting to work as an educator for more than a decade in two beautiful schools is truly an amazing journey. One that is fulfilling and unforgettable. 

Working under different school principals is another plus side to cultivate meaning in management and leadership. Sharing space with work mates or colleagues from different backgrounds and aspirations are worth remembering for the rest of my retired life. 

Above all, getting to interact on a daily basis with thousands of innocent young kids who want to do something in life is absolutely amazing. Although, it's a rare chance to meet and interact and understand different minds, for a school teacher it's a unique opportunity to be and guide, share dreams, hope and aspirations to fulfill one's dream are a rare treat. 

In the span of my teaching career, I had done a great deal of work, I tried hard in all the best possible ways, and went beyond normal to give my best for all types of students who carries big hope in life. 

Above all, getting to serve my nation in the capacity of a school teacher is both an opportunity and a luck. I personally feel that I gave my best that I could to nurture our young minds who all converged in one place with some common dreams and hopes across the country, treated all kids with humility and dignity, and all levels of academic achievement were treated fairly and professionally. 

On some occasions, I was and have to be a father, brother, sister, friend, relatives, doctor, counsellor, and many more. I was what the situation had demanded to be in different forms, voices, and minds. One thing I always upheld to do my job was to be inside the teacher code of conduct. I was trying my best to be as professional as possible because I believe teachers are the role model. What we show becomes the future of the nation. I also believe that teachers are the face of the nation!

This voluntary resignation was taken with utmost consideration because leaving a job that is so dear and close is not an easy choice. However, I am also happy that someone in my position gets a chance to lead with a different approach. I personally feel that this is also an opportunity to share the space with someone of similar background and subject interest. So, my resignation is someone's opportunity!

 

A tribute to nature icon Sir David Attenborough

Source: BBC/Wendy Hurrell

I vividly remember watching a beautiful narration by Sir David Attenborough on National Geographic, BBC, and many other TV channels and fast forward, it's already historic 100 years that he has been the "face and voice of countless documentaries". 

It was a rare treat to watch TV in those days, that too at someone's home or a cousin's place. The little moment of privilege was well spent watching documentaries on Animal Planet, Discovery Channel, etc., with so much caution and without flinching an inch. Missed opportunities would be too boring and regretful.

Those are the days of beautiful innocence!

For a million dreams, I never imagined the world would be this crazy with the internet and technology. Now with Artificial Intelligence mania, it is only going to get crazier! Not sure what tomorrow would look like.

I reminisce about those days as simple and ordinary. I think those days are quite irreversible and gone forever.

Watching endless Sir David 's documentaries on TV was something I took very seriously for connecting with nature, especially animals and landscapes.

One thing I always remember is his deep voice, so suited to the subject he brings into the frame for us to watch and feel so deeply connected. It was too beautiful and crazy to watch him narrating and enjoying as if he controlled every bit of the life around him. I always used to get so moved by his narration and sense of occasional humour when he talks about wilderness and nature.

He is an absolutely rare piece who completely sacrifices his life for nature and the wilderness. 

So, simple yet so profound, human he is for me and to the rest of the world.

As he turns 100, I take this opportunity to wish Sir David, 'A Happy Birthday.' May you live long and happily. May you continue to spread love across the world through nature and landscape. May you unite people across the world and ocean. May you shine like a diamond. May you sing the song of heaven to all humanity.

You are the voice of nature -animals, birds, and other creatures you have touched and shown to the world that every single life, no matter what, what size and colour, it still plays significant role for the very survival of this Mother Earth we all call HOME!

Let's save nature to save our planet. Let us become the voice like Sir David to save our planet. 

LONG LIVE SIR DAVID FROM THE LAND OF HAPPINESS!

 

Finally the Wait is Over

Today, we share double happiness. First, Bhutan is celebrating its 118th National Day in the sacred Bumthang Valley - a day that marks the unification of Bhutan under our great leader, Gongsar Ugyen Wangchuck. Second, after a long wait, we are finally reunited with our beloved children after 972 days (2 years, 7 months, 29 days).

Our foreign dreams came with a heavy sacrifice. It was nothing like the pain of leaving behind our two beloved kids and family. Though they were well-taken care of by my brother, sister-in-law, and our mother, nothing eases the ache of being away from them. The early months were especially hard, filled with guilt, longing, and constant thoughts of their well-being.

Life did not offer us many choices while I pursued my studies. Bringing them with us then would have been so hard for all of us. We waited, endured, and grew stronger. Today, though I am still a university student pursuing a research degree, we are a little more secure.

As our children join us, we hope this new chapter fills them with humility, learning, life skills, and values to serve our king, country, and people.

Welcome to our rented home

17 December 2026 | Arrival: 6:15 p.m (Canberra airport).

My Takeaway from ABRC 2025

Indeed, many things are happening around the world. The year 2025 is already slipping away from our hands, and it has been a challenging year for many countries, from Trump’s tariffs to rapid changes driven by AI and emerging technologies, and global conflicts that have cost thousands of innocent lives. Conversely, several interesting and inspiring developments are unfolding around us.

For the past three days (3rd–5th December), I found myself fully absorbed in a Facebook livestream from the Royal University of Bhutan. It featured an insightful knowledge-sharing event called the "3rd Australia-Bhutan Research Conference". Despite my tight schedule, I made a point of listening to all the scholars, researchers, and academicians, mostly from Bhutan and some from Australia, as they shared their perspectives. 

I do not regret spending my time listening. The program was well-structured and well-coordinated. Many moments made me pause and think, "Wow!" Our Bhutanese friends and scholars have accomplished remarkable work, not only within Bhutan but also in a highly developed country like Australia. 

As we have transformed from medieval ideas to global perspectives, I'm sure that almost every Bhutanese, perhaps 99%, is familiar with Australia. I'm certain that even my parents, who never attended school, know about this country.

I was particularly drawn to the sessions on artificial intelligence, generative AI, and other technologies influencing our education and health sectors. I was equally impressed by the research shared on health, well-being, nature, medicine, and more. The depth of studies conducted by Bhutanese researchers, often in collaboration with international experts, especially from Australia, was truly inspiring.

Listening to the Vice Chancellor of RUB was a highlight. He is someone whose wisdom and leadership I deeply admire, a figure I have always looked up to for guidance and personal transformation. I also appreciate the Ambassador of Bhutan to Australia for envisioning and coordinating this event, recognizing that for our country to progress, research must become part of the DNA of every sector and ministry.

I had been waiting for such a program for a long time to strengthen my own research skills. Through this conference, I gained valuable knowledge and insights, and I deeply appreciate the commitment of the entire team and all our Bhutanese researchers. Their work benefits not just themselves, but Bhutan and the wider world in many meaningful ways. 

Please continue this excellent work.

I was especially happy to hear the President of Paro College of Education share thoughtful reflections on Bhutan’s education landscape, particularly in primary education. His examples of transforming teaching, promoting kindness, and personally supporting students by printing storybooks from his own pocket were deeply touching. His words reminded me of my own teaching days, where small acts of sharing with my students often warmed my heart. His message echoed my own lived experiences.

There are, however, a few things we can improve for future high-level exchange programs: better microphones or technology support, clearer audio for online viewers, and stronger time management.

I want to thank everyone involved in organizing such a meaningful event. We genuinely need these platforms often. I look forward to more in the future. This should not be the last but rather the beginning of a strong, knowledge-based exchange system. Our government and various agencies could also adopt some of the research findings presented, especially those with potential for business, innovation, and national development. 

Bhutan is known for mindfulness, well-being, and more tolerant people, while Australia has so much in its advancement and technology. 

Learning, Presenting, and Growing: My journey as a Research Candidate

Source: Paul Maximilian Bisca, 2019

Personally, 18th of November 2025 will remain a memorable milestone in my life. As I prepared to present my Introductory Seminar, I found myself navigating a mix of excitement and nervousness. 

Facing a pool of experienced academics minds like research supervisors, published scholars, and disciplinary experts was both inspiring and nerve-racking for someone still new to the research field.

I'm currently pursuing a Master of Information Sciences under the guidance of two exceptional supervisors.

While research has always fascinated me, stepping into this space now felt both timely and unexpected. In many ways, it arrived at a critical intersection of my life, not purely by choice, but by certain circumstances. Yet, I believe that some opportunities are meant to unfold exactly this way. With each small coincidence leading me here, I've come to embrace this path with genuine curiosity and renewed purpose. I must stand for my passion!

Studying at the University of Canberra has enriched this transition. UC offers a supportive environment, strong academic culture, and excellent facilities. Honestly, an ideal place to learn, unlearn, and relearn. It has reaffirmed my belief that with passion and perseverance, one can build a meaningful academic future from the campus.

The Introductory Seminar itself was an important step in my candidature. As the third presenter of the morning, I delivered my presentation for 21 minutes and 34 seconds. 

The experience was challenging, especially as doubts and “what ifs” filled my mind before I began. But once the presentation ended, a sense of relief and accomplishment settled in, and finally I got both my mind and heart back to normal state. 

The feedback I received was constructive and encouraging. Several suggestions were refining theoretical links, clarifying expected outcomes, strengthening methodological alignment, and reviewing relevant frameworks have all offered clear direction for improvement. 

While completing this stage brought satisfaction, it also reminded me that more demanding tasks lie ahead. 

Research is a continuous learning process that requires great reading, exploration, search, persistence, humility, and intellectual resilience. I look forward to developing these qualities as I would like to pursue my life as a lifelong learner.

For now, this moment marks both progress and possibility. And that is something I am truly proud of.

However, this assurance and little motivation shared by my supervisor for my presentation is in fact world to me. 

No matter what, I'll keep working more and spirit high as ever!

My 118th National Day Reflection

Source: Motivation Bhutan

As our National Day is fast approaching, it is time to take a moment and reflect on the importance of 17 December. In 1907, Bhutan reached a historic turning point when Gongsar Ugyen Wangchuck, our first Druk Gyalpo, unified the nation under a hereditary monarchy system. 

On this day, He was unanimously declared as a King of a small Himalayan country, barely known to the outside world.

His intelligence, courage, and leadership ended internal conflict and laid the foundation for a peaceful, united Bhutan. National Day is therefore more than a public holiday. It is perhaps a tribute to the extraordinary vision of the leader who secured our national identity as a sovereign nation. We remain grateful for the path our nation has followed, for it was on this day that Bhutan's history was forever written.

Preparations for this year’s celebration are already underway across the country, bringing citizens together with pride, gratitude, and hope, and reinforcing a sense of national unity. 

It is important to encourage our children not only to participate in the festivities but also to understand the day’s significance, so they can appreciate the sacrifices of our monarchs and carry forward the values that have strengthened Bhutan for generations.

Each year, I take a moment to reflect and pray for the nation's success. I always make a point to shared small perspectives on this day, believing that even simple reflections can contribute to collective remembrance. 

This year, my thoughts turn to the increasingly popular Druk-gi Nya-goe Dendhur, Bhutan's strongest man competition, which has become a major highlight of every National Day.

More than entertainment, the competition embodies strength, endurance, and resilience - the very qualities of our first king. Watching men lift sandbags, drag logs, and hoist massive tires demonstrates their physical and mental fortitude. Over the years, viewership has grown across all age groups, particularly among senior citizens who enjoy seeing the raw talent of the participants.

Having observed live broadcasts from various districts, I note the excitement and unity the event inspires. Yet, safety remains a concern. Many spectators stand too close to the competition line, and some competitors participate without basic protective gear, some even barefoot or bare body. While it is important to encourage participants and entertain the audience, anchor and spectators should maintain a safe distance, or out of the boundary. I believe that many competitors are primary providers for their families, any injury could have serious consequences.

It is time to make the competition safer and more professional. 

Bhutan can learn from established international events by encouraging, or setting some basic training, safety awareness, and preparation for participants at least a month in advance as mandatory. Simple measures like personal fitness, lifting techniques, safety protocols, and diet management can significantly reduce risks and prevent any kinds of injuries because I believe lifting such a heavy weight can severely impact one's health if not now but in future. 

This competition has become a cherished National Day legacy, symbolising the strength and resilience of our monarchs and people. Ensuring professionalism and safety will help preserve this legacy for future generations.

As we celebrate National Day, let us honour the unity and determination that built our nation while committing to safer, more responsible traditions. In doing so, we respect our past and build a stronger, safer future for all, a standard truly worthy of our NATIONAL DAY.

Declaimer: This view is the author's own and does not indicate harm or personal attack to any individual or institutions. 

Remembering Our Great 4th, Our Beloved King

 

Source: FB Page

 

I join the nation to pay my humble tribute to Our Beloved Monarch –The Great 4th King Jigme Singye Wangchuk, King of Bhutan (1972–2006), on his 70th Birth Anniversary.

Thank you for Taking The Throne At The Age of 16.

At this age, most of us would have barely known how to take care of ourselves, care about our hairstyles, or dressing in some odd manners, our Great 4th took on the charge of leading our nation. He was the youngest king not just in Bhutan, but around the world. His Majesty’s extraordinary wisdom, maturity, and vision at such a young age remain an enduring inspiration to generations of Bhutanese. (I probably world like to write more, or contribute as a chapter in future about this, to share my personal feelings with some bit of research wrok of his majesty)

Thank You For Giving Us Gross National Happiness (GNH).

This profound philosophy extends beyond our borders and has influenced global conversations on well-being, even resonating with world leaders such as President Trump of the United States. I recall an instance during my Grade Nine IT practical exam when I was asked to prepare a PowerPoint presentation on GNH. At that time, my understanding of the concept was limited, but over the years, I have come to appreciate its depth and significance. I continue to explore and internalize its principles, aspiring to apply GNH in my personal development and everyday thinking to become a more compassionate and mindful individual.

Thank You For Always Ensuring The Preservation Of At Least 62 Percent Of Forest Coverage.

Many may not fully grasp the profound importance of forests, yet I increasingly recognize the far-sighted wisdom behind this vision, not only for Bhutan but for the entire planet. We live at a turning point in history, characterized by rapid technological progress and the rise of artificial intelligence. Regardless of how advanced humanity becomes, whether we reach the Moon or other planets, we will always depend on forests for clean air, water, and life itself. Forests are essential for the survival of all species. If we were to exploit our natural resources carelessly, we might achieve temporary material prosperity, but we would lose the very essence of what makes Bhutan unique. His Majesty's vision ensures that Bhutan remains a sanctuary of balance, sustainability, and natural beauty.

Thank You For Bestowing Constitutional Democracy Upon The Bhutanese People.

Before this historic transition, we had little experience or understanding of democracy. Yet, through His Majesty’s enlightened vision, the people of Bhutan were gently guided toward a democratic system. Reflecting on this, I realize how timely and timeless this decision was no one could have foreseen or planned such a transformation more wisely than His Majesty himself. The thought of this moment in our history evokes a deep sense of gratitude and reverence.

Thank You For The Extraordinary Legacy You Have Left For Bhutan.

Your Majesty remains one of the greatest modern leaders -humble, simple, quiet, and yet profoundly visionary. Although Bhutan may not compete with powerful nations like the United States in material development, the moral and philosophical legacy you have bestowed upon us is far greater and deeply inspiring. What many leaders could not achieve in a lifetime, you accomplished through wisdom, compassion, and a vision that transcends time. I personally wish to follow your example in my own life, as a father to my children, a son to my parents, a husband to my wife, and a responsible neighbor within my community.

Thank You For Always Recognizing Young People As The National Asset And The Future Of Bhutan.

The phrase "the future lies in the hands of our young people" continues to resonate deeply. It reflects His Majesty’s belief in the power and potential of youth to shape the destiny of the nation. This timeless message has inspired generations to take responsibility and accountability for their actions and for the greater good of the country. I recall writing about this in one of my school examinations, drawing inspiration from His Majesty’s speeches on youth empowerment, a message that still motivates me today.

Thank You For Providing Free Education And Healthcare.

Around the world, millions are deprived of education and healthcare due to financial constraints. Yet, under His Majesty's visionary leadership, these essential services were made freely accessible to all Bhutanese citizens. Considering our nation’s size and economy, this decision was both courageous and compassionate. I remember paying only Nu. 35 as a school fee in my early years, and the highest I ever paid was Nu. 135 when I reached Grade Twelve in 2008. Even these small amounts were sometimes challenging for my parents to manage. Without free education, I might not have had the opportunity to attend school at all. His Majesty’s foresight in prioritizing education and healthcare has shaped countless lives and continues to define Bhutan's identity as a compassionate and progressive nation. This legacy is timeless and immeasurable.

THANK YOU SO MUCH MEWANG CHOG!!!

I shall forever cherish these seven gifts of our beloved 4th King. They remain close to my heart now and forever ( I might keep writing or adding on and on, word-by-word, and sentence-by-sentence, and perhaps as a book, time will tell, but I promise to reflect about these on daily basis)

 

Thought for the Day

Dear Tshogyal: A Brief Review

Dear Tshogyal: The Memoir of a Prostitute written by Pema Wangchuk is a deeply moving narrative that traces the life of a young girl abandoned by her father and raised by a single mother under difficult circumstances. 

Despite her potential, Tshogyal's decision to leave school midway remains one of the most regrettable moments in her life. One that reminds us how easily youthful innocence can be overtaken by despair and circumstance.

The story reveals her painful journey from childhood through adulthood, marked by loneliness, exploitation, and emotional scars. Yet, beneath her suffering lies an unspoken lesson on resilience. The strength to endure and the will to keep moving forward. Her life compels us to reflect on how we view adversity, not as an end, but as a test of how we perceive, respond, and rebuild.

A single line captures the essence of her tragedy and trust: "It was just one night, one moment of trust, but it was enough." 

Tshogyal's story also deeply reflects the broader reality of many who suffer silently. It reminds us that despite differences in fortune, each of us must learn to live with reflection, and compassion. As a same citizen with same condition, living in a close-knit society blessed with family and identity, I strongly feel that we're perhaps far more privileged than many who endure such silent battles alone, never ending suffering. 

In the end, Tshogyal's story is not only about pain. It is also about endurance, courage, and the search for dignity. It calls upon us to build safer, more resilient communities and to ensure that no one's suffering goes unheard. 

Reading this book, I feel Tshogyal made a few decisions she perhaps shouldn’t have, especially discontinuing her education. She may have left school due to inexperience or lack of support, but leaving herself to such a heartbreaking odd job at a young age seems unpleasant. Even if she later gains fame or wealth, the scars of her early experiences would definitely pain her again and again.

What struck me most is the importance of a father in a family. Tshogyal clearly felt the void of a father or male figure in her childhood, and this absence may have been a key reason she ended up in such condition. I wish anyone, especially girl child shouldn't face such harsh reality in life. It simply sophisticate my breath. I feel sorry for Dear Tshogyal!

May she find peace, love, and the warmth she was once denied, for she truly deserves a life far better than her past.

I wish everyone to read this little book by our own Bhutanese author to know more about the inside story of Dear Tshogyal. 

Our Beloved King in His Mission

The Third Pillar — Pelsung: Guardians of Prosperity in Bhutan

Image: HM's Official FB Page

Image: HM's Official FB Page

Image: HM's Official FB Page

Image: HM's Official FB Page

October 8, 2025: 

As the third group of volunteers begin their work in Gelephu Mindfulness City (GMC) His Majesty The King announced the launch of Pelsung.

Pelsung, meaning Guardians of Prosperity, is a new national initiative to engage Bhutanese youth in developing creative and practical solutions for the GMC.

His Majesty announced Pelsung as the third pillar of nation-building alongside Desuung and Gyalsung, instituted to help build strong foundations for the country’s future.

“For a small population, every single person matters, and these programmes are intended to empower our people, to build harmony and the capacity to work together. As His Majesty the Fourth Druk Gyalpo said in the 1974 Coronation Address, our collective efforts will have far greater impact than the concerted efforts of a few,” His Majesty said.

His Majesty said that the Gelephu Mindfulness City represents the aspirations of the nation taking shape, and that the sacred responsibility to protect Bhutan’s unity, harmony, and unique identity for all time falls on the youth.

“Everything we are doing today is for our youth – so that they will be better versions of us, better prepared, smarter, and more hard-working. It falls on us to build that future, and on them to protect it and take it to greater heights,” His Majesty said. “That is the reason Pelsung has been created. I invite larger and larger numbers — the brightest and strongest amongst us — to join. We begin with 300–400 Pelsups, but expect to have thousands in the coming years. While today we bring in experts to help build the GMC, it is imperative that Bhutanese are able to take over the responsibility and become its custodians.”

“My father entrusted the responsibility of Kingship to me when I was only 26, with enormous confidence and even greater expectations. I would like to learn from past precedent, and His Majesty’s immense wisdom, and recognize the potential of our youth. We certainly value experience, age, and education. But we must also rely on our youth to take the nation forward,” His Majesty said. “My father took a leap of faith in me, and I have always endeavoured to not disappoint him, my people, and above all, our choechang sungma.”

“It is not how you fit into a role that matters, but how you adapt — how quickly you can learn, absorb information, exercise good judgement, and reinvent yourself,” His Majesty said. “Success requires adaptability, humility, resilience, and a constant appetite to learn. Every moment of your life, you are growing, becoming stronger, and your conviction solidifies. Only when you know what is worth fighting for do you learn how to succeed.”

His Majesty added that the journey ahead will not be easy. “There will be heartaches and disappointments. If it were easy, every country in the world would be better off and do exactly what we are doing. We have to be resilient in the face of challenges to do what others cannot.”

The first cohort of Pelsung participants includes about 300 youth, selected from thousands of applicants from within and outside Bhutan. They represent a diverse mix of civil servants, private employees, students, and recent university graduates.

The programme includes a Youth Integration Training, developed with the support of Desuung, to build teamwork and community spirit. Participants will attend GMC Talks with experts from the Gelephu Mindfulness City Authority, and later form groups to develop ideas under four themes — Social and Cultural, Business and Commercial, Governance and Planning, and Architecture and Urban Design.

His Majesty expressed deep appreciation for the people’s overwhelming interest in joining the volunteer work, saying that people from across the country had shown remarkable enthusiasm to be part of the national effort.

“This is the true spirit of Bhutan, our unity, and the manner in which Bhutanese come together with the noble intent of benefiting all sentient beings,” His Majesty said. “That is what makes Bhutan special, and sets us apart.”

His Majesty especially acknowledged the presence of Lopen Basokarp, the 98-year-old former Yangbi Lopen and Druk Thugsey recipient, who had requested to come to Gelephu to take part in the voluntary work.

The ceremony was attended by Her Majesty The Gyaltsuen, Members of the Royal Family, international guests, officials, and the public of Gelephu.

The Classic Two

 

Pic: Reden (Left), Yesha (Right)

It feels unfair not to mention anything about this photograph sent to us. It takes us back, as if we'd only just left them yesterday. Yet, time has moved so fast, both have grown into entirely different from the ones we left behind.

When we left, our boy had just begun to speak words like "papa, mummy, mammum" and our Yesha was still too young to be apart from us.

Perhaps it was not fair on our part as parents. However, different circumstances pushed us to this far away place, separated by mountains, valleys and oceans.

Honestly, when I think about the missed milestones of our children, my higher degree and the foreign experiences are nothing.

We console ourselves in far away places, deep inside our heart, that even though there's a quiet regret that lingers, yet life must go on, no matter what. And we're not just the parents who're far away chasing some wild dreams. 

When I first saw this photo, I just couldn't scroll to the next. I was profoundly lost in this photo. It gave me some mixed feelings, one proud that they're in safe hands and the other, it pained my heart that we missed every moment of their milestones, which money and our experiences can't buy. 

"Missing their innocence, baby smell, nagging, laughter, and funny moments will never return".

Reden's mature pose and Yesha dressing full in sublime purple and mixed, girlish tone remind us of the years we'd just missed. Indeed, those missed precious moments of our kids will remain forever etched in our hearts. 

We may have been away, but our love has never left them and never will.

  

My Takeaway on First-ever Research Seminar

When I first received the invitation from my supervisor to attend the School of Information Technology & Systems seminar on 18th August, I was both surprised and excited. 

In fact, it felt like a special moment to mark the beginning of my academic journey. I accepted the invitation both verbally and through the official channel, and even marked the date in my calendar so I'd not miss this opportunity to listen to senior research students sharing their work and milestones—the most important one being "the Confirmation of Candidature".

Having just begun my research study under the guidance of Dr. Hamed and Dr. Ellisa, I'm still at the stage of figuring the "whats, whys, hows and whens" of this long learning journey. 

While I've undertaken research-related units in my undergraduate and postgraduate studies, and even carried out small action research projects, I still consider myself a beginner. 

Real-world research requires much more as it takes time, commitment, countless cycles of reading and rereading, unlearning and relearning, as well as collaboration with peers and supervisors.

To make this seminar a priority, I set aside everything else and even took leave from work. I wanted to ensure I could attend, because I knew this event would lay an important foundation for shaping my topic.

Indeed, I was clueless when I entered the room (7B56). However, luckily I found a seat next to a fellow Bhutanese student. Exchanging quick greetings with a friend from my home country gave me comfort and helped me settle in. 

The first two presenters, both from China, spoke about their research in advanced technology (,,,) and Robot(,,,). 

Their work made me reflect deeply. I found myself thinking about how much of our daily life is connected to products “made in China”—from the clothes I wear to the utensils I use. Beyond this, I realized that China’s dominance in technology, AI and innovation stems not just from manufacturing but from a strong research culture supported by sustained investment in education.

Listening to these presentations was eye-opening. It was as though I was revisiting my high school physics and mathematics lessons, but this time seeing them transformed into real-world applications such as robotics and machine learning. I understood that such breakthroughs are not accidental but rather the result of systemic effort, discipline and a thriving culture of research and innovation.

At the same time, I appreciated the diversity of the seminar. Some presenters showcased highly technical innovations, while others contributed through theoretical or policy-focused work. This balance reminded me that research takes many forms, but its essence lies in creating knowledge that is rigorous, transparent and meaningful.

For me, attending this seminar was not just about observing others; it was also about reflecting on my own journey. I realized that research is more than abstract theories. It is about building facts, connecting ideas logically and building new knowledge. 

In fact, this session have deeply widen my understanding of how to systematically conduct a research. It gave me both direction and inspiration to prepare well not just to meet milestones but to gradually grow into an independent researcher. 

Our Three Humble Offerings

Reden's 6th Birthday Offering

It has been exactly 841 days, or 2 years, 3 months and 19 days, since we have been away from our two beloved children.

Perhaps I don't want to recall that Thursday morning of 20 April 2023, when we had to leave them still sleeping in their beds. Since then, we have been living in two different worlds, counting each day, hoping time passes quickly and our reunion happens like a magical moment.

Today, we celebrate our son’s 5th birthday — from afar, through video calls and virtual hugs.

We send him our warmest wishes and endless prayers for his good health, his happiness and a life filled with love and meaning. May all his dreams come true, and may he always be guided by kindness and strength.

To honour his 5th birthday, we offer three simple, symbolic gifts;

 A "Butter Lamp" ( in the hope that he will one day shine light upon the world with his goodness, warmth and wisdom.  

A "Bhutanese Incense Stick" (wishing that he may carry the fragrance from the Himalayas within him, spreading love and calm wherever he goes). 

A "Red Daisy" (hoping he will be admired not only for his appearance but for his kind heart and that he may be loved by all for who he truly is)

With these humble offerings, we don't just wish him good health but also we wish him to grow into a compassionate, intelligent and humble human being, who will one day serve his country with highest integrity, pure passion and utmost loyalty.

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Our King's Vision of GMC

 

Photo: gmc.bt

I am always amazed by the concept of Gelephu Mindfulness City (GMC) -the brainchild of our beloved king. 

What's so intriguing to me is the whole idea of this city but what it symbolizes for Bhutan and for each one of us-the future rooted in spirituality, sustainability and purposeful living. 

It's even more awe-inspiring to witness the architectural brilliance that's slowly beginning to shape this dream project. Among the many incredible designs, this aerial view or bird eye view of one side of the proposed city caught my heart so deeply. 

I can't just move on without a long stair to these images. The Education Centre and the Airport stand out with their stunning and timeless beauty, each space reflecting not just the modern elegance but the blend of traditional design, which I have long dreamt about. In many occasions, I have shared this with my Science Students -many of whom have gone to become architects and engineers, scattered across different parts of the country.

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Unfolding a new era of learning - Part II

I had the opportunity to attend the Zoom session "Walk the Talk -02", with four insightful panelists, some seasoned researchers, others university lecturers. The session ran for nearly two hours, but every minute was worth it. 

I would like to believe that they are not only supporting aspiring PhD and Master's Research Candidates but also trying to build a vibrant research community where ideas, guidance and collaboration can thrive.  

Mr. Gopilal Acharya presented on "Academic Writing" and he covered pretty well the fundamentals of academic writing. 

Dr. Deki presented on "AI and Academic Writing". She emphasized that AI is a double-edged sword. While acknowledging its growing influence, she firmly warned us against using AI in any form of academic writing. Reliance on AI not only fosters dependency and laziness, but also diminishes creative thinking and originality. 

AT THE BEST, DON'T USE AI! 

Dr. Karma Tenzin, shared some "General Insights", in fact the whole process, drawn from his own experience.  I found some of his words genuinely encouraging. However, one particular piece of advice of finding a reliable "Study Partner/Study Buddy" was something EYE OPENING! 

Dr. Phuntsho Wangdi, gave us the consultation process and timely communication with supervisors and other research groups. 

My sincere thanks to the EduPlus Bhutan Journal team for organizing this session at a critical time. To make us feel that research journey is not so difficult, it all needs "passion, dedication, commitment, collaboration, critical thinking, attention to detail, etc, etc,,,"

Thank you for inspiring us!

Part I

Part -II

Disclaimer: These screenshots are taken from the presentation and are shared solely for my personal reference and record-keeping purposes.